why am I buying cocktail dresses in the middle of a pandemic and I don't even drink cocktails?

Around two and a half years ago, I stopped self-medicating and numbing myself with food.

This brought about a balance and clarity I had never before experienced.

I noticed however, that when I stopped using food as a substitute for pleasure and love, I started doing something else.

Every now and then, I went on a shopping spree.

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trust your intuition

There was a meme going around that asked you what you would say to your 18-year-old self using only three words.

I answered it recently by saying, go to California. This was sort of a joke or at least, light-hearted, but I was thinking about that question later and realized what I would actually say to my 18-year-old self if I could only use three words:

Trust your intuition.

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this time around

I turned another year older yesterday.

If we weren’t in a pandemic right now, I’d have thrown myself a vintage-style birthday party and encouraged you all to dress in 1940’s style.

As it was, we are in a pandemic and my birthday fell on a Monday and much of the country, including where I live, was under threat of a huge snow and ice storm.

I thought about encouraging you to dress vintage and do the party virtually…but it just didn’t feel right under the circumstances.

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an inauguration

We have a new administration, and this country’s first woman vice-president.

I don’t think everything is suddenly going to be roses and rainbows, nor do I think politicians are saviors, but it does make a difference who holds office in this country.

It makes an enormous difference in people’s lives.

Both sides are not “the same,” and the past four years in this country have been brutal.

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